Guidelines for Christian Life

Guidelines for Christian Life, Growth and Transformation

  The following principles represent a tentative effort to restate the Christian spiritual journey in contemporary terms. They are designed to provide a conceptual background for the practice of centering prayer. They should be read according to the method of lectio divina.

1. The fundamental goodness of human nature, like the mystery of the Trinity, Grace, and the Incarnation, is an essential element of Christian faith. This basic core of goodness is capable of unlimited development; indeed, of becoming transformed into Christ and deified.

2. Our basic core of goodness is our true Self. Its center of gravity is God. The acceptance of our basic goodness is a quantum leap in the spiritual journey.

3. God and our true Self are not separate. Though we are not God, God and our true Self are the same thing.

4. The term original sin is a way of describing the human condition, which is the universal experience of coming to full reflective self consciousness without the certitude of personal union with God. This gives rise to our intimate sense of incompletion, dividedness, isolation, and guilt.

5. Original sin is not the result of personal wrongdoing on our part. Still, it causes a pervasive feeling of alienation from God, from other people and from the true Self. The cultural consequences of these alienations are instilled in us from earliest childhood and passed on from one generation to the next. The urgent need to escape from the profound insecurity of this situation gives rise, when unchecked, to insatiable desires for pleasure, possession, and power. On the social level, it gives rise to violence, war, and institutional injustice.

6. The particular consequences of original sin include all the self serving habits that have been woven into our personality from the time we were conceived; all the emotional damage that has come from our early environment and upbringing; all the harm that other people have done to us knowingly or unknowingly at an age when we could not defend ourselves; and the methods we acquired–many of them now unconscious–to ward off the pain of unbearable situations.

7. This constellation of prerational reactions is the foundation of the false self. The false self develops in opposition to the true Self. Its center of gravity is itself.

8. Grace is the presence and action of Christ at every moment of our lives. The sacraments are ritual actions in which Christ is present in a special manner, confirming and sustaining the major commitments of our Christian life.

9. In Baptism, the false self is ritually put to death, the new self is born, and the victory over sin won by Jesus through his death and resurrection is placed at our disposal. Not our uniqueness as persons, but our sense of separation from God and from others is destroyed in the death dealing and life-giving waters of Baptism.

10. The Eucharist is the celebration of life: the coming together of all the material elements of the cosmos, their emergence to consciousness in human persons and the transformation of human consciousness into Divine consciousness. It is the manifestation of the Divine in and through the Christian community We receive the Eucharist in order to become the Eucharist.

11. In addition to being present in the sacraments, Christ is present.

12. Personal sin is the refusal to respond to Christ’s self-communication (grace). It is the deliberate neglect of our own genuine needs and those of others. It reinforces the false self.

13. Our basic core of goodness is dynamic and tends to grow of itself. This growth is hindered by the illusions and emotional hang-ups of the false self, by the negative influences coming from our cultural conditioning, and by personal sin.

14. Listening to God’s word in scripture and the liturgy, waiting upon God in prayer, and responsiveness to his inspirations help to distinguish how the two selves are operating in particular circumstances.

15. God is not some remote, inaccessible, and implacable being who demands instant perfection from His creatures and of whose love we must make ourselves worthy. He is not a tyrant to be obeyed out of terror, nor a policeman who is ever on the watch, nor a harsh judge ever ready to apply the verdict of guilty. We should relate to Him less and less in terms of reward and punishment and more and more on the basis of the gratuity–or the play of divine love.

16. Divine love is compassionate, tender luminous, totally self-giving, seeking no reward, unifying everything.

17. The experience of being loved by God enables us to accept our false self as it is, and then to let go of it and journey to our true Self. The inward journey to our true Self is the way to divine love.

18. The growing awareness of our true Self, along with the deep sense of spiritual peace and joy which flow from this experience, balances the psychic pain of the disintegrating and dying of the false self. As the motivating power of the false self diminishes, our true Self builds the new self with the motivating force of divine love.

19. The building of our new self is bound to be marked by innumerable mistakes and sometimes by sin. Such failures, however serious, are insignificant compared to the inviolable goodness of our true Self. We should ask God’s pardon, seek forgiveness from those we may have offended, and then act with renewed confidence and energy as if nothing had happened.

20. Prolonged, pervasive, or paralyzing guilt feelings come from the false self. True guilt in response to personal sin or social injustice does not lead to discouragement but to amendment of life. It is a call to conversion.

21. Progress in the spiritual journey is manifested by the unconditional acceptance of other people, beginning with those with whom we live.

22. A community of faith offers the support of example, correction, and mutual concern in the spiritual journey. Above all, participating in the mystery of Christ through the celebration of the liturgy, Eucharist, and silent prayer binds the community in a common search for transformation and union with God. The presence of Christ is ministered to each other and becomes tangible in the community, especially when it is gathered for worship or engaged in some work of service to those in need.

23. The moderation of the instinctual drives of the developing human organism for survival and security, affection and esteem, control and power allows true human needs to come into proper focus. Primary among these needs is intimacy with another or several human persons. By intimacy is meant the mutual sharing of thoughts, feelings, problems, and spiritual aspirations which gradually develops into spiritual friendship.

24. Spiritual friendship involving genuine self-disclosure is an essential ingredient for happiness both in marriage and in the celibate lifestyle. The experience of intimacy with another or several persons expands and deepens our capacity to relate to God and to everyone else. Under the influence of Divine Love the sexual energy is gradually transformed into universal compassion.

25. The spiritual radiation of a community depends on the commitment of its members to the inward journey and to each other. To offer one another space in which to grow as persons is an integral part of this commitment.

26. Contemplative prayer, in the traditional sense of the term, is the dynamic that initiates, accompanies and brings the process of transformation to completion.

27. Reflection on the Word of God in scripture and in our personal history is the foundation of contemplative prayer The spontaneous letting go of particular thoughts and feelings in prayer is a sign of progress in contemplation. Contemplative prayer is characterized not so much by the absence of thoughts and feelings as by detachment from them.

28. The goal of genuine spiritual practice is not the rejection of the good things of the body, mind, or spirit, but the right use of them. No aspect of human nature or period of human life is to be rejected but integrated into each successive level of unfolding self-consciousness. In this way, the partial goodness proper to each stage of human development is preserved and only its limitations are left behind. The way to become divine is thus to become fully human.

29. The practice of a spiritual discipline is essential at the beginning of the spiritual journey as a means of developing the foundations of the contemplative dimension of life: dedication and devotion to God and service to others. Our daily practice should include a time for contemplative prayer and a program for letting go of the false self.

30. Regular periods of silence and solitude quiet the psyche, foster interior silence, and initiate the dynamic of self knowledge.

31. Solitude is not primarily a place but an attitude of total commitment to God. When one belongs completely to God, the sharing of one’s life and gifts continually increases.

32. The Beatitude of poverty of spirit springs from the increasing awareness of our true Self. It is a nonpossessive attitude toward everything and a sense of unity with everything at the same time. The interior freedom to have much or to have little, and the simplifying of one’s life-style are signs of the presence of poverty of spirit.

33. Chastity is distinct from celibacy, which is the commitment to abstain from the genital expression of our sexuality. Chastity is the acceptance of our sexual energy, together with the masculine and feminine qualities that accompany it and the integration of this energy into our spirituality. It is the practice of moderation and self-control in the use of our sexual energy.

34. Chastity enhances and expands the power to love. It perceives the sacredness of everything that is. As a consequence, one respects the dignity of other persons and cannot use them merely for one’s own fulfillment.

35. Obedience is the unconditional acceptance of God as He is and as He manifests Himself in our lives. God’s will is not immediately evident. Docility inclines us to attend to all the indications of His will. Discernment sifts the evidence and then decides, in the light of the inward attraction of grace, what God seems to be asking here and now.

36. Humility is an attitude of honesty with God, oneself, and all reality. It enables us to be at peace in the presence of our powerlessness and to rest in the forgetfulness of self.

37. Hope springs from the continuing experience of God’s compassion and help. Patience is hope in action. It waits for the saving help of God without giving up, giving in, or going away, and for any length of time.

38. The disintegrating and dying of our false self is our participation in the passion and death of Jesus. The building of our new self, based on the transforming power of divine love, is our participation in his risen life.

39. In the beginning, emotional hang-ups are the chief obstacle to the growth of our new self because they put our freedom into a straight jacket. Later, because of the subtle satisfaction that springs from self-control, spiritual pride becomes the chief obstacle. And finally, reflection of self becomes the chief obstacle because this hinders the innocence of divine union.

40. Human effort depends on grace even as it invites it. Whatever degree of divine union we may reach bears no proportion to our effort. It is the sheer gift of divine love.

41. Jesus did not teach a specific method of meditation or bodily discipline for quieting the imagination, memory, and emotions. We should choose a spiritual practice adapted to our particular temperament and natural disposition. We must also be willing to dispense with it when called by the Spirit to surrender to his direct guidance. The Spirit is above every method or practice. To follow his inspiration is the sure path to perfect freedom.

42. What Jesus proposed to his disciples as the Way is his own example: the forgiveness of everything and everyone and the service of others in their needs. “Love one another as I have loved you.”

More information can be obtained by reading the bookOpen Mind Open Heart by Fr. Thomas Keating. 

Contemplative Practice. Monday January 28, 2019

Program: Centering Prayer Vestibule Practice: Breath and Body Awareness Centering Prayer; Lectio Divina; Time to Share; Short reading for enrichment.

Lectio Divina material

The Way

All the ways of the Lord are loving… Psalm 25:10 NIV

This is my commandment: love one another, as I have loved you. John 15:12 NJB

41. Jesus did not teach a specific method of meditation or bodily discipline for quieting the imagination, memory, and emotions. We should choose a spiritual practice adapted to our particular temperament and natural disposition. We must also be willing to dispense with it when called by the Spirit to surrender to his direct guidance. The Spirit is above every method or practice. To follow his inspiration is the sure path to perfect freedom.

Open Mind Open Heart by Fr. Thomas Keating.   Christian Life, Growth and Transformation, Chapter 13

                                              


READING: “The Present Moment and All That Is”Excerpted fromThat We May Be One
Fr. Thomas Keating  (Word of the Week 

Our relationship with God is not static. It’s dynamic, and the Spirit is suggesting what to do in every present moment. So, that’s why we haven’t time to think of the past or the future, unless God brings it to our attention, because everything that we want is NOW. Our capacity is there. God is prepared to fill it, and we just have to go through the experience of development on each level of our humanity, culminating in living just to manifest God in whatever way we’re supposed to.

The present moment then, you might say, is the computer that God is always texting us. So, if we think we’re alone, we’re mistaken. As long as you have your cell phone on, you’re in touch with all the world—it’s a good symbol of relationship, because in relating to God, you’re relate to everything that he made and everything that he made is good. This is the kind of conviction or conceptual background that we need to insist upon over and over again. It’s being in the presence of God and being able to stay there and love being there, while submitting to the difficulties and duties or what happens at the same time. There is everything that’s happening at the present moment, and there is this Presence that doesn’t change, that is always there, and which you contact in some degree when contemplative prayer begins to be firmly established.

I think those scientific gadgets are marvelous metaphors of how many ways God is actually communicating to us at every moment. It’s not just a statue or a picture we’re thinking of. It’s all of reality contained in its Creator here and now in a single instant. You have to be open and adapting as whatever happens as an embrace from God.

So, there’s no need to think of self or the past or to worry about the future. It’s now. Now, now, now, now, now!  You’re always in the presence of God and then you can see God in different things, whatever the Spirit may suggest.

  

Contemplative Practice. Monday January 21, 2019

Material to use during our online meeting

For Lectio Divina:

Gospel MK 2:18-22

The disciples of John and of the Pharisees were accustomed to fast.
People came to Jesus and objected,
“Why do the disciples of John and the disciples of the Pharisees fast, 
but your disciples do not fast?”
Jesus answered them,
“Can the wedding guests fast while the bridegroom is with them?
As long as they have the bridegroom with them they cannot fast.
But the days will come when the bridegroom is taken away from them,
and then they will fast on that day.
No one sews a piece of unshrunken cloth on an old cloak.
If he does, its fullness pulls away,
the new from the old, and the tear gets worse.
Likewise, no one pours new wine into old wineskins.
Otherwise, the wine will burst the skins,
and both the wine and the skins are ruined.
Rather, new wine is poured into fresh wineskins.”

Meditation:

Everyone serves good wine first, and then,
when people have drunk freely, an inferior one;
but you have kept the good wine until now.

– John 2:10
 
Brothers and sisters,
there are different kinds of spiritual gifts but the same Spirit
… one and the same Spirit …
distributing them individually to each person.

– I Corinthians 12:4, 11

Today’s readings echo the rejoicing of the third Sunday in Advent – with a slight difference. In Advent, we waited in “joy-filled hope.” Now, we
rejoice in fulfillment. Exiles have returned to Jerusalem; water has
turned into wine. What once appeared ordinary and mundane has been
infused with effervescence and light.   We, who lit candles in the darkness, have been transformed. Rejoicing in the awareness that God is with us, we turn to the Spirit within and discover gifts. Blessing upon blessing,
these gifts not only bring us joy, they also benefit our brothers and
sisters.    Today’s readings celebrate our transformation, the gifts
discovered in that process and our ability to use those gifts in the
communities in which we find ourselves, as well as in communities
beyond our usual comfort zone.

You are invited to view this video clip, about six minutes in length

https://youtu.be/kbJcQYVtZMo

Some material was extracted from the Contemplative Outreach Word of the Week January 20, 2019 in order to be used in our online prayer time.

Eternal Life

It is too little, the Lord says, 
for you to be my servant, 
… I will make you a light to the nations, 
that my salvation may reach to the end 
of the earth.
– Isaiah 49: 6
 
Beloved: The grace of God has appeared, 
saving all and training us … so that 
we may be justified by his grace 
and become heirs in hope
 of eternal life.
– Titus 2: 11-12; 3: 7

What if there were another way of considering “eternal life” other than the common notion of an infinite duration of passing time — the possibility of higher dimensions in this earthly life?  That it is not necessary to wait for death to experience the eternal? Rather, time and eternity are on different levels on the “scale of reality.” Further, that not only is this a possibility, but there is some urgency to know and act of this reality in order to experience the fullness of this life. That, in fact, eternal life means, first of all, the completing of oneself in this life, increasing consciousness to the extent we live at whole new level of reality, in a sense of completeness or wholeness for which we were created.

From The World of the Week 2019.

Sunday January 13:  A Light in The World. Contemplative Outreach.

Contemplative Service

A contemplative practice such as Centering Prayer seems naturally to call forth contemplative service. When we start this journey, we often do Centering Prayer to feel better; to be more centered, focused, and relaxed; to experience spiritual consolations; to deepen our relationship with God. As our practice matures, our motivation changes. It moves beyond our felt experiences to something deeper.

What are you really doing when you sit down in Centering Prayer and open yourself to God’s presence and action within? In Fruits and Gifts of the Spirit, Fr. Thomas writes, “You are opening to God’s presence and consenting to God’s activity. God’s activity is the work of the Holy Spirit in your particular embodiment in this world.”

Now there are varieties of gifts,

but the same Spirit;

and there are varieties of service,

but the same Lord;

and there are varieties of working,

but the same God who inspires them all in everyone.

To each is given the manifestation of the Spirit

for the common good.                         

— 1 Corinthians 12: 4-7

In Invitation to Love Fr. Thomas says, “The contemplative journey, of its very nature, calls us forth to act in a fully human way under the inspiration of the gifts of the Spirit. These gifts provide the divine energy of grace …” As we have learned in this course and through our practice of Centering Prayer, “We are rooted in God, and by accessing that divine energy we are united with God and able to do what Jesus did: be a manifestation of God’s tenderness and compassion among the people we serve and love” (Fruits and Gifts of the Spirit). Rooted in God, accessing divine energy, we are able to do as Jesus asks of us in Matthew 10: 8, Give as gift what you have received as gift.

What is contemplative service? It’s not just volunteering, and it’s more than helping. And it’s not about accomplishing something. When our service is motivated by the emotional programs of the energy centers and not from the true center of our oneness with the Indwelling Spirit and from a sense of oneness with all creation, we are likely to burn out. Contemplative service is a vocation, a divine call motivated and inspired by love. Service happens when what we do arises from our center, inspired and led by God. It’s a way of life, a way of being present to all that surrounds us. Inspired by this divine call, we engage in contemplative service with the intention of being transformed in and through the experience.

“It’s not how much we give but how much love we put into giving.”

— Mother Teresa

As you consent to the work of the Holy Spirit in your particular embodiment, the fruits of the Spirit manifest and are experienced by those in relationship with you.

…The fruit of the Spirit is love,

joy, peace, patience, kindness, generosity,

faithfulness, gentleness, self-control.

— Galatians 5: 22-23

By their fruits you will know them.

— Matthew 7: 16

From: The Spiritual Journey. Formation of the Spiritual Life with Contemplative Outreach. Session 99. Spirituality and Practice December 17, 2018

A New Online Centering Prayer and Contemplative Practices

A new prayer format

This is the schedule from December 2018 to April 29, 2019. I am using the Zoom platform for audio and video.  If someone from our CONEO community want to try this way of prayer format, it is welcome.  The only thing that is necessary is to contact me so I will give information how to access to the group. 

You may give my e-mail address: fucsina@mac.com or through the http://www.prayingfromtheheart.org/?page_id=1187

Thanks, 

Josefina Fernandez

2018

December 27, Thursday at 1 pm

2019

January 21, Monday at 6 pm

January 28, Monday at 6 pm

February 25, Monday at 6 pm

March 4, Monday at 6 pm

March 11, Monday at 6 pm

March 18, Monday at 6 pm

March 25, Monday at 6 pm

April 1, Monday at 6 pm

April 8, Monday at 6 pm

April 15, Monday at 6 pm

April 22, Monday at 6 pm

April 29, Monday at 6 pm

The Christ Mystery Meaning – a Meditation

I am using this meditation for our prayer time of a our weekly group of Contemplative Prayer.

“…Sister Ilia Delio, unpacks what the Christ mystery means and how we might practice seeing Christ everywhere.

So does everyone have to become Christian to know the Christ? Absolutely not; Christ is more than Jesus. Christ is the communion of divine personal love expressed in every created form of reality—every star, leaf, bird, fish, tree, rabbit and every human person. Everything is christified because everything expresses divine love incarnate. However, Jesus Christ is the “thisness” of God (“God is like this and this is God”) so what Jesus is by nature everything else is by grace (divine love). We are not God but every single person is born out of the love of God, expresses this love in [their] unique personal form and has the capacity to be united with God. . . . Because Jesus is the Christ, every human is already reconciled with every other human in the mystery of divine [love] so that Christ is more than Jesus alone; Christ is the whole reality bound in a union of love.

We cannot know this mystery of Christ as a doctrine or an idea; it is the root reality of all existence. Hence we must travel inward, into the interior depth of the soul where the field of divine love is expressed in the “thisness” of our own, particular lives. Each of us is a little word of the Word of God, a mini-incarnation of divine love. The journey inward requires surrender to this mystery in our lives and this means letting go of our control buttons. It means dying to the untethered selves that occupy us daily; it means embracing the sufferings of our lives, from the little sufferings to the big ones; it means allowing God’s grace to heal us, hold us and empower us for life. It means entering into darkness, the unknowns of our lives, and learning to trust the darkness, for the tenderness of divine love is already there. It means [being] willing to sacrifice all that we have for all that we can become in the power of God’s love; and finally it means to let God’s love heal us of the opposing tensions within us. No one can see God and live and thus we must surrender our partial lives to become whole in the love of God. When we can say with full voice, “you are the God of my heart, my God and my portion forever” [Psalm 73:26] then we can open our eyes to see that the Christ in me is the Christ in you. We are indeed One in love.

Ilia Delio, “A Reply to Richard Rohr on the Cosmic Christ,” October 16, 2017, https://www.omegacenter.info/reply-to-richard-rohr-cosmic-christ/.

Richard Rohr Meditation: The Universal Christ: Weekly Summary. December 8, 2018

Fr. Thomas Keating: Memorial Videos

Memorial Videos
Thomas Keating: A Life Surrendered to Love (19 minutes)

Sharing the Divine Nature – In Memory of Thomas Keating (2 minutes)

Centering Prayer: Becoming Nothing – In Memory of Thomas Keating (2 minutes)

Thomas Keating – A Life Surrendered to Love

Contemplative Outreach has created a wonderful video titled Thomas Keating – A Life Surrendered to Love. I highly recommend it. It is a great tribute to a man who has lived a life of love and contemplation, and has profound messages from a contemplative as he approaches the end of his time on earth. You can view the video here: https://vimeo.com/297436953